Yeah I guess I kind of left out the background info, didn't I?

Just before my husband and I got together, he was dating a DG and I was dating an SAE....SAE was the main rival of the Delts at KSU. I had a knack of either dating exes of DGs or getting pursued by guys (usually SAEs!!!!) that DGs were interested in....(I guess we have similar tastes!!!!) so I was not the most popular girl around their house. One of my SAE exes and his cronies made disparaging remarks about my husband to me, so things were pretty awkward there. It was all just ugly.
The good news is that in the end Brent got to be friendly with some of my cooler SAE buddies. And I ended up becoming very close friends with a DG, who actually HAD been a very close friend of Brent's ex!!!!!
Actually, I must edit my post.....now that I think about it if they find out that they're OUR kids, they'll get dropped by those houses so fast heads will spin. That's ERIKA'S daughter????AAAAGH!!! LOL