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I don't even know what a BGLO is. However, I think its quite different. For example, at least where I'm from, most guys going through rush will state that they feel pledgeship is incomplete without some sort of hazing. I don't think girls have nearly as much of a need to feel that they earned it. However, from what i've seen on this board, rushees in other parts of the country may not feel that need either. I think down here, where a lot of these guys fathers and grandfathers went through it, it is a rite of passage and a testing of will. Back to love/loyalty, those are completely different things. Girls are much more likely to love and care for their sisters than guys are in fraternities. However, I think guys are much more likely to go to bat for each other, more likely to be honest and tell a fraternity brother to their face what the problem is. There are plenty of guys in my fraternity I wouldnt choose to hang out with all the time, but if they were in trouble, I'd be there without hesitation. Also, please don't tell me this is a sexist comment, because everyone knows it to be true.
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