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Originally posted by Bajan_Delta
This is strictly my opinion, but I don't agree with interracial dating. Mainly because our minds have been incarcerated so long by white society and some (not all blacks) believe that to be with a caucasian some how says that they have arrived. I know that some have already said this but I also don't believe that a white man cause relate or identify with me as a black woman.
For this same reason I've never seriously dated an American man. Before I get crucified let me just explain why. I have no negative statements to make against Americans (whether black, white, orange or polkadot) but I found that I can't fully related to what Americans go through and don't fully understand me. I want a man who eats the same food as I do and who speaks the same way as I do. It is the same with race. With race comes cultural differences and those differences can be quite significant.
Though I don't agree with interracial dating I'm not one of those people who gets all nasty, because at the end of the day I'm not the one dealing with a white man/woman. To each his/her own.
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Who says dating interracially means dating someone who is white? My cousin is Chinese and is in a LD relationship with her black boyfriend. I have dated Latin and middle eastern men as well as white.