I met a man I REALLY like on a mb. Now I know there are creeps on mb's and you must be careful; but I have been secretly talking to him for a little over 6 weeks. We have had intimate conversations but I made him very aware that I did not want that but he says it's ok. He is a Kappa and he is mad intelligent, witty, and extremely talented (he is an artist). We talk, literally, for hours everyday before, during, and after work. He has seen me and I him. I know it's new but I have a crazy crush on this man.
The thing is, I feel he knows my nose is wide open. He said we could be friends with benefits, I told him he benefitted from having me as a friend. He says he likes my style (of word play) , really likes talking to me and loves my accent. He says he likes a woman that knows what she want, and I am a girlfriend possiblilty, but if we can, be friends with benefits. He doesn't want a relationship nor do I.... but sex with a man from a mb is NOT an option!
At first, I was a little taken when he said this to me, but then again men I see here say things just as worse in person. *shrugs*
Plus, that lame okey doke, you cool but let's be friends with benefits doesn't work either. I told him I am aware that he will stay around for as long as it takes to reach his goal and that he has a really long wait, he didn't seem bothered.
Gosh, this feels so good to get off my chest, if I could only confess more esp. on this.....................
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