It is in no way different!!! This goes back to what I believe is mental slavery. I am all for an equal opportunity dater, one who doesn't cause what race you are (even though I don't do that myself). But to say that I don't date people of my own race is self-hate. Sorry to let a sister know but no matter how much she hates black, she is black and there is not enough plastic surgery or weave in the world to change that. And if a man is so weak minded that he will only date white women, let the white woman have him.
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Originally posted by AKA_Monet
I just watched a very heart wrenching Tyra Banks Show where a "Black" girl--who was obviously "Black" said she HATED Black women for the similar stereotypical reasons as to why racist Klan members hate Black folks and some Black men stop dating Black women.
So, my question is, how is it different for a Black woman to say she hates Black women and only wants to have white female friends because they are "better", than for a Black man to say that he will only date white women? Is it different?
Okey, I'll start: my opinion, my husband and I had a huge disagreement on it. I don't think it is different, whereas he does because he says that Black men who say that they will only be with white women say it because they have been "hurt" so many times in the past by Black women and blah, blah, blah--we've all heard that story...
I say there is no difference, both are self-hating and self-defeating behaviors and it is silly.
Ironically, Tyra was about to go across that stage an beat the chit outta chick until she realized she was payin' her to say some crazy chit like dat dere...
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