I've been with the same man for over 5 years and we've both been ask that question a ridiculous amount of time. We both respond "When you pay for it." Quite honestly we are broke, and though we've been "shacking up" for about 3 years, I see marriage as sacred and I don't want to become a statistic (one of the 52% of people getting divorce). Though people say well if you love him what's the problem. The problem is love don't pay the bills. Finances plays a large part in a marriage and I'm not going to get into a union with no money.
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