This will sound bad...but in my sorority I swear the motto on guys is "reduce, re-use, recycle!!" there are many sisters who I think "swapped" boy friends!! It can be nasty and definatly upsetting, but the important factor is that everyone is mature about it. It totally sucks but its not like you could "blackball" her...just hope that he breaks her heart very soon!!!
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Sarah Lyon
Sister Lots-a-Heart, #9
President, Iota Beta Chi Sorority
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