I actually agree. If the relationship is purely physical, then it doesn't matter about intellect. However, the couple which we were referring to were engaged or married. I believe that once you enter that realm of relationships, physical attraction has to be supported by something else. Otherwise, once I've you've got your back broke in, then you just need to go home. Men and women will never fully understand each other b/c we are two different species and think differently(I'll never know what it is like to be pregnant...thank God), but I do what is like to be followed in the "high-end" shops. That is all I am pointing out. But I believe "if you like it-I love it". Do whatever works for you