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Originally posted by 33girl
And you know, I just want to cap off this whole thread by saying that if you're on a relatively small campus and everyone knows what sorority or fraternity you are in, IT DOESN'T MATTER A DAMN BIT WHEN YOU SMOKE/DRINK/TOKE/SWEAT/CUSS/ACT BITCHY IF YOU ARE IN LETTERS OR NOT. BECAUSE EVERYONE KNOWS WHAT GROUP YOU ARE IN ANYWAY. If people DON'T know you're an XYZ - why don't they?
And even if you're at a big school - it's just hypocrisy to me (I know I've said this a million times on this subject but I really don't care). If you think people are so obtuse as to only be able to identify you when you have letters on, and you can act like a dolt the rest of the time and get away with it, that's a real disconnect of thought patterns there.
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The only thing I'd add is that you really should do your best not to have your picture taken with a drink in one hand, cigarette in the other and have your letters on. For some reason, THOSE are the photos that find their way into the Yearbook! In fact, one of my favorite photos of a XO friend shows just that, and she was called up on their equivilant of Standards charges. The worst part is, this was taken at a private, All-Greek mixer, not at a bar.