I would have to agree with most that it is not a good idea to write negative comments about others in writing because they can come back to haunt you!
I know that you were angry, I would also be ticked off and would not let her and those involved get away with it.
Very smart of you to get that video shoot and I would definetly prosecute. As for her parents, I would hope that her father being a lawyer would be a person with integrity that would see how his daughter was wrong and would not stand by her as she tries to defend herself. If I were you, I would consider writing a professional letter to her executive committe at her chapter and I would cc her international headquarters. I believe that her behavior (Once you can prove that it was actually behavior that she did partake in!) deserves suspension from her sorority so that she learns a lessson and so that others will learn from her mistake. I know that if someone in my chapter did something as mischevious and as drastic as that, I would definetly pursue that and make it my personal goal (this may sound very malicious, but from what you say about her reactions after you confronted her, she needs a lesson!)
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