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Originally posted by texas*princess
If a guy doesn't want to have the responsibility of raising a child, he should insist on bagging it up before having sex. Period. End of story.
Or better yet, don't have sex at all.
When you do anything in life, sex included, you go into it knowing what possible repercussions might happen.
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This is not meant to be funny or mean, but guys really aren't thinking after they've unloaded their spunk...
Then their stuff shrinks and the "bag" can conveniently become "oversized"--so to speak...
So they usually after-thrust, lose the condom or if it's old, it tears, and either the semen either falls out it just enough to impregnant a woman, depending on sperm counts and ability to swim and reach, etc. or he ejaculates more that makes it worse...
A woman, on the otherhand, who is not actively taking the norestradiol pills/patches, as well as other contraceptive devices, can move her cervix right into the mix--like it pumps down, etc. right into a "well" allegely filled with semen so that these guys can be thrusted past the uterus, into the fallopian tubes to get to the oocyte...
Most oocytes that are ready to be fertilized are just coming out of the ovary and have either 1-2 outer layers removed from the "follicular stimulation". Depending on hormonal conditions, pH, and other factors--i.e. uterine nutrients, etc. the physical pregnancy occurs when there is implantation and hormonal factors are sent to the pituitary and the hippocampus. As some are aware, this occurs within 24-48 hours after "conception".
These anecdontal stories of a woman getting pregnant in a swimming pool without actual intercourse--I'm sorry, but I don't buy it. Moreover, that's why IVF cost so much because the way I just described it, doesn't happen 100% of the time.
And I got this from Cecil's Textbook of Medicine, the edition before the latest one...