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Originally posted by seraphimsprite
But you have to approach them as your sisters, not as projects needing improvement.
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WOW this sums it up and I think that's what is sticking in some peoples' craws.
As many times as you say you love your sisters, it seems you could care less if they WANT to do this - or if it'll make their lives any better. You want them to improve their appearance so YOU can have what you consider a fulfilling sorority experience.
I had a sister who was continually helping some of our "style challenged" sisters out with their hair, makeup etc - and yes, I'm sure some of it was to try and give us a bit of a more "glam" image, but the point is she mainly wanted to do it to help THEM out, and she was able to do it in a good spirit without being mean or offensive.