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Originally posted by 33girl
The other girls are happy with the way they are. Unfortunately, they probably had a national officer or advisor telling them to be fake and put on a show during rush, and as a result, took women like yourself who thought they were something they weren't.
If you can somehow go early alum or take an inactive status, I would advise it. This isn't the chapter for you.
And, I hope that the girls can stand up for themselves next time and show who they really are during rush. I'm betting the fakiness turned off as many rushees as their weight or anything else.
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Do chapters who "show who they really are" recruit competitively? I find it very hard to believe that a chapter could do formal recruitment successfully without the fakeness.
And yes, I realize maybe success in formal recruitment is not a determinant of success in any other area of chapter operations. But quota, as per our national organizations, is a goal we want to achieve. I would be surprised if chapters were achieving quota without a healthy, balanced measure of "fake".