[33girl]

You probably should have picked something else to distinguish you from the assiness that is SockPuppet2.

The school's not going to do anything, as long as you continue to meet requirements for a student org. And when there are RSOs with 2 people, they're not going to care if a sorority is on equal footing with other sororities or not.

You CAN help people to improve their appearance - if you word it correctly. Have you thought about starting an aerobics class or having someone from Mary Kay or Avon come to do makeovers? Have you brought up the topic, in a constructive way? Is there anyone else who feels the same way?

The other possibility, of course, is that everyone else in the sorority is happy with where they are, and could care less about socials with fraternities or campus image. In that case, you should probably go inactive or terminate, because you're banging your head against a wall and you'll be miserable for the rest of your college career. Plus, you can't pull someone up if you're being negative.

The girls in the "top" sororities have their own set of problems, too - don't think that they don't.