You know, I'm not a fan of bangs, but I think you look good with them. I'd say go shoulder length with bangs, maybe? Really, I'd say go shorter, but you probably don't want to do that.
I just got my hair cut, shorter than it's been for years -- a chin length bob, shorter in back. It takes half as long to dry/style and I feel liberated!!!
Guys always seem to like long hair, but it is too much of a pain, if you ask me.