[NinjaPoodle]

Originally posted by GoldenGlow2000
All I can say is different strokes, for different folks. If the Soror let the bruh borrow the cane, I don't see the problem. I'm quite sure she knew what he would do with it.
As far as it goes, I am one for the Indi-love. I have received nothing but respect from the brothers I have met from Kappa Alpha Psi.

Originally posted by rho4life
I think this is just one of those regional things. Just to be on the safe side, and to be polite, I always ask before I touch someone else's cane unless I know them and know that it's cool. And I expect people to ask before they grab mine. It's just about manners, if you were at someone's house that you don't know that well, you don't go digging through their stuff, you ASK if you need something.

PS - When you come out to CA, you could borrow mine.

I agree with my SoRHOrs. Personally, I am also for the Indi-Love as they were the 1st to congratulate us after my sand and I crossed. I've never touched a Kappas Kane however I did ask one to show me a twirl.