Hey Sarah ... I'm sorry to hear about your less-than-ideal experience with that individual & also 'losing' your ID & cc's ... trust me when I say that I know how you feel! My supervisor this past summer 'borrowed' my corporate amex that I handed in when I quit (it was THAT bad) & proceeded to have his car detailed & bought a few (dozen) rounds at a local nightspot ... it took me months to rid myself of these fraudulent charges, & he's now facing a fraud investigation! Anyway, I know just how frustrated you must be right now ... definitely do get the surveillance & follow up with the cc company & stick it to the culprit!!
In the meantime, do know that while the conduct of this individual was obviously VERY unbecoming for anyone, let alone a Greek woman, she is only ONE member of that organization. As such, do try to remember that she definitely DOES NOT represent their entire organization (heaven forbid!!) ... it's her that you're mad at (& rightfully so!) , not her GLO. Believe me, if you were to ask any of her sisters here on gc, I am very confident that they too would denouce her behavior as very 'unsisterly'!! Don't waste your time or energy getting yourself riled up any more - she's soooo NOT worth it!!! my advice ... since she is only ONE member, perhaps it would be best to focus on her in your post & not condemn the organization - no sense in upsetting the online members of that organization.
ok, I'll step down from my soapbox now. Sarah, do take care of yourself & know that your online sisters will always have your back
LiEP,
Jen
Delta Zeta '97
University of British Columbia