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Originally posted by DirectorDST1999
We need to write a book. The same thing happened to me in November. I decided then that I will no longer use the internet as an avenue to meet men. Even the so called "legit" sites are not the best avenues...you know the ones you pay for. I had known this guy for quite a while. He's been to my parents' home, dined with us, I drove his car, met his teenaged son, been to the house, job and absolutely NO sign of a wife.
I received a phone call in the late night hour...very similar to your call aquafina. I was devastated, angry and sick to my stomach after getting the call. The wife and I continued to talk up through Christmas until I decided if she were to heal, talking to me wasn't helping. The bad thing about it is they just had a baby, a 2 month old. The wife had a C-section at that!!! We had him on three-way and he denied knowing me. LOL He told us both to have a nice life and to pray for him.
What's so strange is after talking to the wife, I realized we had had many things in common. It was almost like we were identical. The last time I spoke to the wife, she left him. We prayed together and I wished her well and she did the same. As for the guy, I told him to forget he ever knew me and lose my information.
I do have a new outlook on internet meeting and dating. But on the other hand, I've meet men in person that have been just as shady as the ones online. I've kissed dating goodbye and I'm enjoying the single life.
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I never did the internet thing, and I found most men on there busta's. The guy I dated was the first one to contact me and the funny thing is I wasn't interested, but talking to him I found out we knew a lot of the same people. I alos wasn't interested because I thought he was to nice. So we talked on the phone, all hours and all day. We eventually started what I thought was a committed relationship. He told me he loved me really early, which was starnge to me and he wanted me to fall in love with him. He told me he was divorced with one child and that his ex-wife was a neglectful mother. He told me about other relationships. He talked about our children growing up together as brothers, taking family vacations, swapping keys, the whole nine. Just one thing he decided to leave out, he was still married and he had not one but 2 children. When I tell you there were no signs, there were NO signs! We talked all the time, morning noon and night. We have been everywhere together, he wasn't hiding. But guess what this past Saturday his wife called me. Her and I talked and I spilled the beans. The messed up part of it is that her and I are in the same circle. Now he is made at me because I told her the truth. The sad thing is she will probably stay and she told me there have been other women in the mix.