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My 2nd year in college i was talking to a girl thru blackplanet who was getting ready to graduate. We had talked for a couple quarters before we started going out on dates and doing stuff together. One day i decided i'd try to do something out of the ordinary, so i bought flowers... candy... and a 5 foot bear... all of which where her favorites... i show up at her door to find some guy all in her face yelling and goin crazy.... there were also a set of twin boys crying and pulling on the guys jacket. I confront the guy and tell him to get out her face, and he and i get into a fight... after we are separated we talk about what the heck is going on... come to find out this chick has twin boys by this guy and he was complaining because he was being forced to pay child support on kids he was the sole provider for and she forgot to pick them up from school one day and they stayed there til after dark. I was so embarrassed and pissed at the same time. but thats not the end of it... me and the guy talked awhile cuz i took him and his boys to lunch... he told me she left him at the altar... on the same day we took our first date.... you talk about utter disbelief.
So i do feel you ladies on being played. It aint no joke. I just wanted to make sure it was clear both genders have some #ucked up folks lol.
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