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Originally posted by dc1:
Let me add something to this too:
Some get offended if I don't tell them that I'm gay until later on... they feel that I have lied to them or held something back.
Some get offended if I tell them from the start... they feel that I am shoving my sexuality in their face... so where is the middle ground?
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I can understand your quandry!! That's a hard line to walk.
I would say, don't bring it up, but if one of your friends (I mean CLOSE friends, not some random person in your english class) asked you about it, I would be honest with them. If I asked a good friend and she denied it, I would be very hurt. I'd feel like she didn't think enough of our friendship.
I don't feel you need to tell people right from the start, any more than you would walk up to someone and tell them what color underwear you were wearing.