I think that it is harder to accept gays being in these kinds of organizations when they are trying to pass for straight. I think that is more harmful than coming out-especially guys in fraternities, because they have all these mixers with the girls, and they shouldn't feel forced to date girls, or get "involved" with them, just to cover up. Well, actually it works both ways, doesn't it. Guys aren't really excited about dating girls who aren't straight-so they shouldn't hide who they really are, should they? Fraternities and sororities are all about the social aspects-and yes, I know all about the for the community stuff, but mainly it's about friendships and social doings-so hiding their true identities is not fair to the rest of the members or opposite sex. How do you all feel about that aspect?
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