Well, since we are being honest...
I have mixed feelings.
I would love to say with confidence that it wouldn't matter if, when I was in college, one of my sisters told me she was playing on the other team. BUT I think it would be a problem, not beacuse I think I'm so hot that she would hit on me, but what would the reaction be on campus? Would your chapter embrace the publicity? Would everyone feel comfortable sharing a multi person room in the house with her?
I think it would cause a rift in the sisterhood beacuse it is a sensitive subject, for some, not everyone, but when can you EVER get a group of 65+ girls to agree 100% about anything?I'm not saying we wouldn't take a Potential New Member because of it, but I am trying to convey some concerns.
It would take some soul searching down here in NC, just my opinon...
I feel like on one hand you would love her because she is your sister, but on the other, you may be uncomfy with the situation.
I'm not saying it's the right thing, I just wanted to get my 2cents in.
BUT you never know who likes what until they tell you, who's to say it hasn't already happend and I loved her the same, but never knew...I think I like that idea better.
As for UNFsigmachi, I think you have a valid point, none of our founders would have imagined this type of situation, but I think it would boil down to what you were founded on and how you MUST move with the times to survive.
[This message has been edited by ecukd (edited March 28, 2001).]
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