And if she figures out that you post on here and reads that comment it will be the last ass you get from her
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But good for you . . . now the test is whether she comes back for more . . .
However, a word to the wise for the boys:
If a girl is initiating "the talk" she is usually looking for an answer of committment or something, or at least the promise of a promise for future committment . . .
So what you do is turn the tables back on her with the questions: "Where do YOU think this is going? Or "where would you like us to be at?"
Or you can load the question with, its so early in the relationship don't you think you should still keep some of your options open.
And then you can have a little fun with her because most women won't go out on a limb that early (even though they brought "the talk" into it) and will probably say something like "we should still see others" but she won't necessarily believe that (remember she's the one that brought up "the talk".).
So you reply, "oh ok, actually I really like you and enjoy spending time with you, and I kind of saw the relationship getting serious, but now that you say that I am convinced you are right, we should definitely keep our options open. I mean I wasn't thinking that before, but now that I think it through, after what you said, it definitely seems best . . for a while at least."
That puts the onus back on her leaves you guiltless for keeping the relationship casual. She'll blame herself
. And if she changes her tune and suddenly wants to back pedal, you just keep repeating, "no, I think you were right the first time".