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Old 03-28-2001, 04:17 AM
TemptingNugget TemptingNugget is offline
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WOW!!! it's me again, the oringinal poster *waves* and i dont know why i feel i have to defend myself and bare it all, but i do.

ok. i posted the original message, because i was honestly concerned that the GLB community was being 'closeted' in our Fraternities and Sororities, and looked upon as something thats 'okay' but 'please, by all means, dont tell anyone else' and 'for the love of God, stay away from me!' ... and that, my friend, is just wrong if you ask me.

contrary to what you seem to believe, i have NO problem what-so-ever with the GLB OR T community. i, in fact, feel that i really connect with the GLBT community, being that i am one of those fancy GLBT letters. :-)
yup, thats right, i'm either a lesbian, or bisexual. i'm not telling which though. i like having that air of mystery about me. LOL!

the reason i said 'dont be shy, we wont point and laugh' and such, is this WACKY little thing we crazy kids like to call Sarcasm. ::::giggle:::: not funny?

another reason is, i know that a lot of people here notice what their friends say about certain subjects, and someone saying that its "okay" or even "not okay" to be in a Greek Org. and be gay might not go over well with all there friends. what i was saying is 'please be open about this. im seriously interested in what EVERYBODY has to say. supportive or unsupportive (allthough the supportive responses make me feel better inside, so i prefer them).' i want to know how everybody feels about this, all different Greeks, b/c i am still closeted in my Sorority, due to the fact that i hear MANY jokes from my girls bashing 'people like me'... and let me tell you, that sucks.

one of the best things about being in a sorority is that UNCONDITIONAL love, and i'm just REALLY afraid that i wouldnt get that if i came out to them. but then again, being that i'm basically living a lie, it's not 'unconditional' love anyways. but i digress....

point is, i WASNT gay bashing in my original post. i just know that a lot of brothers and sisters stay tightly shut in their 'closet' for fear of what everyone else may say or think. People in general have a tendancy to treat you different when you're gay (im only still in the closet in my sorority, so i know)... and being treated like an outsider isn't fair. im NO LESS of a person because i choose to love differently from the majority of society.

and i'm a feminist too. ;-) hows THAT for radical?!


rockin' on with my bad womyn lovin' self,

kate.

ps. teeny, in regards to the chit chat post, we dont really have to make out.... sarcasm again? LOL.... truce girly girl?????


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