SoCalGirl, what experience did I memory trigger that you turned red in the face? Inquiring minds want to know
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I stand corrected, it was SigmChiCard that made the statements I chose to interept as slightly bitter and condescending, I have corrected my post to reflect that.
Committment issues are not really issues unless they keep you from enjoying life. I wouldn't worry too much about the shoulds of relationships . . . to easy to think badly of yourself. Although, if you are getting guys that treat you badly, I would ask you a question: Do you go out of your way to ask men out? Or do you wait to be asked? Because if you wait to be asked you are at the mercy of what comes your way.
As far as disease goes, its a crapshoot with the odds very much in your favor, especially with a condom.
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Originally posted by SoCalGirl
James-
I always love your posts. It's all true, but I swear I couldn't be more red right now!
Help me out here, did Lifesaver even post in this thread yet? I can find it! Why's he bitter? I've looked three times and still don't see it. 
AlphaChiOhMy-
I'm in the same boat as you! No angel but definitely no "technical virgin" either.
There's way to much disease out there, plus I have way to many commitment issues. I swear I always end up treating guys like dirt or let them treat me like dirt. I have got to find a balance before I throw sex in the mess!
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