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Originally posted by OhioCentaur
MOST DEFINITELY! I feel it should be treated the same way on both ends...I feel that way because, if a person can give you real reasons why they want to join and are prepared to face the consequences of joining that particular org then go for it! I just dont like to see people go against the grain who are not prepared for what is to come after its all said and done.
Everyone has to make their case as to why they want to join a particular org but even more so if the person is going to have lifelong backlash for the decision they made.
I have a white bruh in shippensburg who pledged before i crossed. I sat down and talked to him about why he did it and what he did to prepare for criticizm to come EVEN AFTER he had his letters. He told me his reasons why and that he had thought about all of that and still wanted it. I respect him as i do all my bruhs. But on the flip side i know a guy who pledged and made it all the way thru but couldnt handle the rath of his friends for pledging a black frat. He then depledged and i havent heard from him since. <- That right there I dont like. Thats why i say their case should be made ahead of time.
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Then I guess you'll have issues with me!