[33girl]

Originally posted by sageofages
Ok...You most probably will not like my response...

You are graduated. You have not an active collegiate member anymore...you are an alumna member. You can still have a relationship with your Little but remember the nature of the relationship's daily activities will change. You are an alumna now. If you little is still an active collegiate chapter member, her focus is chapter based. Your focus should be outward looking toward your alumna chapter.

Thank about it that way.

What does her little's "focus being chapter based" have to do with the big-little relationship? My district director had her big and little come to convention to see her get installed on council. Does this mean she isn't "outward looking" because her big and little are still important in her life?