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Originally posted by annice22
I'm single and I don't feel any pressure to settle down and find a guy. I also think a woman can have a life without a guy (e.g. house, travel, etc). I don't feel funny going to events alone (e.g. formals, weddings, etc). I would rather go alone that go with a crappy date and have so much fun.
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If you are still 22, your family probably still sees you as a youngin' wait till you get a tad bit older, then the pressures on... Or better yet, when your mom's friend's daughter's get married... That's when it started for me...
However, they just stated on my news station that women outpace men for the first time in purchasing homes... So maybe times are changing...
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Originally posted by annice22
I think people put too much pressure on dating. I always thought dating was suppose to be fun, something you do to get to know different guys and maybe see what type of guys you like.
I know that I'm independent and I love it. I don't really care what anyone thinks.
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Some folks say that there is a difference between "dating" and "courting". Most folks who "date" are just having fun. But folks who "court" are lookin' to get married, etc. And "dating" for fun eventually leads to "courting" or maybe just getting "played"... Either way, it depends on what folks are looking for.
I hope you can keep that independent spirit up. It's nice know that some things have advance...