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Look, it's very simple . . .
From an evolutionary standpoint, we developed orgasms to make sex enjoyable, and therefore more accessible. These things are the pinnacle of pleasurable feeling - that's not a coincidence . . .
Why do we care about number of partners? It's the fantasy of being "the one" . . . especially men, but also women, want to be the only one. It almost never happens - let's be honest - but it's a fun fantasy. So why even worry about this sort of crap? It only demolishes fantasies, and proves counterproductive.
Here's a simple solution set to the problem:
1. If you desire sexual fulfillment on the intercourse level: HAVE SEX. DON'T TALK ABOUT IT WITH RANDOM PEOPLE IN PUBLIC PLACES. very easy - take care of you, and perhaps others at the same time.
2. If you desire a relationship, perhaps with sexual aspects to it - THINK ABOUT HAVING SEX. BE FAITHFUL - that's what you want, so do it. And don't bitch.
3. If you don't want to have sex - FINE. Maybe it's the right reasons, often it's the wrong reasons (fear, shyness, random feelings of superiority) . . . but either way, do your thing, and let others do the same.
4. If you want to have sex with anything that moves - GOOD JOB BUDDY, DO WHAT YOU WANT. It's your life - do jah thing. That's certainly allowed.
Seriously - this should be a non-issue . . . sex is only taboo b/c people would rather piss themselves than talk honestly about it, and thus expose themselves to potentially 'intimate' details.
Here's the deal - live your life, get laid (if you want to), have fun. Send me a PM if you want to talk further, but realistically - roll. Just roll. Sex is something so personal, it's nearly public - but it's only an issue b/c we make it one. So don't make it one - just like smoking; do it, don't do it, I don't care at all. Just be prepared to defend your stance either way.
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