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Originally posted by James
Some random thoughts on the subject . . .


Note: One of the the most laughable things are technical virgins. Lets see, they will do EVERYTHING else but intercourse? And usually for religious reasons. Wake-up call, if the God you believe is the standard Christian God he is going to call you on having sex. Look people, if it leads to orgasm . . . its sex. Although I will admit we have mystified the intimacy of intercourse . . . but I can't help but think that it doesn't get much more intimate than going down on a girl . . . especially if I pack a lunch and stay for the day . I mean after that, we really kind of know eachother .

Nice posts everybody .

Let me clarify - my "everything else" is along the lines of Vicki and Kevin pre-book of sexual secrets a la American Pie. It doesn't quite fall into your (James') sexplanation of sex. (Hey, its a pun get it?) So, there is a lot I have to learn, which will come in time. But I do not want to come across as "laughable."

I am not the kind of person who holds a big sign saying look at me I am a virgin. People have stereotypes that all people choosing to not have sex at a certain point in their life as bible-pushing fanatics who curse everyone whose not like them. Just as other stereptypes about people who have sex are groundless.

Bottom line: its a personal choice to be made when a person is ready. I don't look at people any way or another by how many people they have/have not slept with. Its just another aspect - potentially awesone - in relationships between men and women.

Thanks for all the disussion on this - I find everyone on Greekchat to be intelligent with strong opinions and wise and witty things to say!!