no. lemme break it down a bit. i said that i would want to know if my interest had an excessive number of parteners. i'm not just randomly judging someone i don't know, i'm taking from (I'm 21 now) 17 years of being great friends with her and drawing a conclusion about her behaviour. If a friend of mine began taking a love interest in her, i wouldn't spout off, what she's f ed 19 guys, get the hell away, but I'd let him know that she's promiscuous because she is. Am I judging her? No, not really, there's no opinion to that, is me saying she acts immorally considered judging her? I'd even venture to say no on that as well because I know her like the back of my hand. I could tell you what she'd be up to days in advance, her motives behind 75% of what she does...I know her. You don't care, and that's good, but
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SCC, you are judging by saying that something is "morally wrong"
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seemed to be blind concern. I'm not trying to incriminate this girl, or have her ostracized for that which she's done, but I also wouldn't want to be the next guy in the line. It's all about the relationship, if he wanted one, and she just wanted to f, then yeah, I'd let him know, and have some knowledge on the subject. If they just both wanted to hit, then hey (and this is assuming she's not slept with anyone in the last year tho last year there were several guys) number 20!