My friend with benefits remained a friend for about 14 years. Then he got a girlfriend and I was so happy for him that he was happy. Then he married her and KEPT calling me. I of course knew that he was miserable in his marriage but told him I don't sleep with married men.
I have no feelings toward him and he doesn't have any feelings toward me. If he were to get divorced I would sleep with him in a minute. I only want him to be happy and wish him all the best.
I think you can totally have sex and not have any romantic feelings.
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