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Originally posted by dzrose93
AchtungBaby would have to clarify this one for me, but I'm pretty sure, based on her previous posts, that she DID ask for them back last year.
It's hard for me to look at it from the borrower's perspective because, to me, she's the root of the problem. AchtungBaby wouldn't have to seek her out if she'd been responsible enough to return the dresses in a timely manner.
When I borrow something, I don't wait for the owner to ask me for the item back. I view it as my responsibility to return the item promptly. (And, in the cases of clothing, I would make sure that they were cleaned before their return.) Quite honestly, if someone had to ask for something back from me, I would be embarrassed.
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I completely agree with you! It's rude to not return something in a timely manner, even if you're not speaking to them- They let you borrow something that was of value to them, the least you could do is return it to them, no matter the situation!
I think she's in the right to try and get them back, it's not as if she just "left" them-she let the girl BORROW them-two completely different things. If you borrow something from a friend, it's YOUR responsibility to get it back to them!