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Originally posted by SparkliiQTMTSU
I believe that once you do get into a relationship or whatever with a person you should be able to openly discuss who youve been with so that the other person does know not to go tell their buddies or anything just for their own FYI!
Nichole
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Oh No. Trust me on this one--been there, done that, and it is a BAAAAD scene. No one really truly wants to know. It breeds insecurity, etc. Now I am talking about relationships, not hookups.
I don't want to know how many people he's been with and I'm not telling him how many I've been with. But this is from a 30+ viewpoint too--in college and early 20s I did feel differently--but too many times with full disclosure causing problems for me or him or both--nope, learned the lesson don't ask/don't tell.
As for when--I agree with most everyone else. When both of you are ready. I've had relationships where this was immediately, and relationships where this took six months--it definitely depends on the situation.