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I have relatives who date and have married outside of their race. I'm actually praying that my cousin will marry this girl (white) because she is a really nice person and I have always liked her. Hell the family likes her. She has stucked with him through thick and thin and I really want him and her to settle. But who knows. I have an uncle who has seen the hate whites did to blacks when he was in the army many years ago. He has told me some stories that will make you cry. So he does not understand why they date white women. I simply told him, it was in their environment. You sent your boys to private white schools. So when they became of dating age, who was there, white girls. But I know all situations are not the same. But since they had so much exposure, hey, it could have happened that way. So............here it is. And we as a family accept it. It hurts him a little, but he gets over it. Those are his children and he loves them. Plus, he wants his son to marry the same young lady I'm praying for. Now if I could get my cousin to marry this girl, I will be soooooooooooo happy.
Several years ago I asked my dad about the dating issue and marrying outside my race. I simply told him that there are things that I see in him that I want my potential mate to have, but with the state of SOME black men today, it is a little hard to find someone. What ever my grandmother did raising my father, hey, she did the right thing because he is truly one of a kind. So he said he would not be happy, but will come to accept it.
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