i like to wait at least 4 hours after I meet them. I feel that gives me plenty of time to decide if I'm ready for sex.
No, just joking.
It all depends on what type of relationship it is going to be.
I'm def not too into rushing things, because if we're not going to be together for a while, then why make yourself look like someone just trying to get laid, but if you do see yourself being together for a while, then you've got plenty of time to get laid two or twenty times a day. Either way, no real reason to rush to bed.
Now, if you're in it cause this person is hot & you don't really care what they think about you if you part ways, then I'm all for rushing off to bed (to be honest), Lord knows. No person is going to really disrespect your decision to stay abstainate (sp?) unless they are a real ass hole, in which case you drop their ass, otherwise, don't deprive yourself of getting it on either, cause who doesn't want to have sex? I mean, intense pleasure sucks! But just don't doing it intellectually, decide emotionally, with your heart.
then go to bed...