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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
I agree and see nothing wrong with not wanting to be with someone who is not striving to do better. Again, I'm assuming we're talking about the dating scene and not other types of networking.
Since we aren't talking about stay-at-home parents (or trust fund babies), people who do nothing and have nothing to show for themselves tend to be very sad and depressed people. They feel as if they aren't contributing anything worthwhile. Even stay-at-home parents (and trust fund babies) can feel this way.
So...why should anyone want to be with someone who doesn't feel comfortable with their life and contribution? You can't be happy with someone until you're happy with yourself. Get yourself out of the rut you're in, so you can feel confident in telling people what you do. Then you can be confident in sharing your life with someone else. 
You and yourself = speaking in general terms
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You and yourself = speaking in general terms
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Isn't it a shame that you have to say that^^^, so that folks won't take things personally? lol