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Originally posted by FuturePhD
Maybe it's different down south? I was born and raised in TN and while we have our inconsiderate men, it is expected that a man treats any woman he dates like a lady. I was past 20, home for a break from college, and any guy who came to take me out had to come in and chat with my father, guys couldn't call after a certain hour, and if you ever honked your horn from my drive way, you wouldn't be seeing me that night. Sistarisin, it also depends on where you meet men, going to a club or something, I fully expect a man to do that "hey baby, what yo name is", because that is what gets attention in those types of places, he doesn't have to do much else because there is always a female who will respond to that. But if you are in church, a museum or something, guys normally know how to approach you....
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FuturePhD,
I agree if you honked a horn at our house..betta believe you weren't going no where with that "negro" for real.
Another thing to mention in my opinion....a man will approach you with the same attitude or look you put out there. If you dressed like a two dollar skank from a Luke video then he is going to approach you like the two dollar skank you are appearing to be so...No offense intended those who choose to dress this way...
If you dressed up in your I going meet a respectful. working, christian man DKNY pants suit with the matching accessories you going to meet that man who is aspiring the same pleasures as you and similar goals.
But don't expect to meet the lawyer, doctor, stockbroker with ghetto tendacies with your first impression because first impressions are important. Sometimes females are quick to size up a man but they forget to size up themselves before they leave home. Are your teeth str*? Are you shoes two seconds from your toe hanging out? How is you hygiene? Do you have a job? Do you have 6 kids with 7 baby daddies? Men are like us ladies they want the cream of the crop.
So remember two things....
The ideal place not to meet your man in the Club...I think the air in the atmosphere kills their brain cells.
Make sure you got yourself in ORDER because your body language speaks alot even if you don't.
But to answer the question since I kinda got off point.. Wooing is still around becaused I got Woo'ed off my feet.