I think there's a lot more pressure on girls than guys. I mean in my family I am asked everytime I come home "so you have a boyfriend?" "when are you gonna settle down?" "isn't it time for a baby?". While my two guy cousins are never asked that question - AT ALL! In fact my grandfather encourages them to stay in school before settling down. The advice he gave me - "real one in while you still look half way decent, and make sure he has money"
