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I quit the local sorority I helped found. (Hence the name change, for anyone who might have wondered.) I had a serious problem with two of the members and couldn't take it any more, so I moved out and quit. I then started hanging out with another GLO on campus, and really enjoyed it. I went through formal recruitment for the NPC groups and ended up accepting a bid from Phi Mu. I would never tell any of the "secrets" of the sorority I was in before, even though there were very few secrets to tell. I also try to avoid badmouthing the members I had problems with, and I am still very close to a couple of the girls. For me, the problem was that I was sick of being treated badly by so-called friends and I had changed so much since freshman year when we founded the group. I couldn't be happier where I am now.
If this girl is really your sister, you should go to her directly and find out what's going on. Don't yell, just calmly tell her you've been hearing whatever, and let her tell you what's going on. It honestly sounds like a bunch of rumors, but if it is true, well, there isn't a lot you can do. As long as you aren't NPC (and I assume you're a local) she can join another GLO if she wants, assuming she has the grades, etc.
Sorry to hear about your problems, but I can sympathize with both of you.
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