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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
That was sort of my thinking but apparently watching your friends make decisions that are dangerous to their health and well being is the thing to do instead of helping them......because you should just mind your own business.
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I hardly think sleeping with a married man is on par with drug addiction, but okay. The problem with that line of thought is that she isn't going to change her behavior if she doesn't think he's wrong or until it's hurting her more than she's benefitting (just like drug addicts generally don't change their behavior until they hit a really, really low point). You can argue and argue all you want, but people don't change unless THEY want to change. Any extended attempts to try and change her will generally just lead to an end of the friendship instead.