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I appreciate the responses. Yes I was being judgemental, because sleeping with a married man to me is one of the most horrid things you can do- to sleep in another's marital bed is absolutely the most disrespectful you can be of another's relationship. It would be one thing if he had a girlfriend, but he has a wife and three children, and she laughs about that too-
"Oh <Guy's name> wife came in today to work and I had to laugh, what an idiot. She started talking to me about <Guy>L and I was thinking , yeah I just finished sucking his dick an hour ago".
Yeah, now that is nasty. I told her, you know, I really am not cool with that situation so do me a favor and don't share with me. But she DOES have an emotional attachment. She quit working there two months ago but went back because he called saying "he needed her" only then did she admit she quit because he said he couldn't do taht to his wife anymore.
I don't consider women that have sex with men skanky, but disrespecting a marriage bed, that to me makes her as guilty as he is.... if she didn't know or if he lied about it I think that would be one thing, but she knows he is married.
I didn't say I was trying to get in the middle of it- she just keeps coming to me to talk about him and how much fun she is having. I asked to think about how she would feel if that had been her father and that had happened to her mother but she said "it's different!" and my reply was "not to his kids".
But thanks for the input.
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