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Whew, am I glad I did I search because this thread clearly already exists.
Basically, I am going through some things and am redefining what I believe (in love as well as other aspects of my life)...
Just wondering: Do you believe that most married people have found their soulmate? Or, are they with someone they mate while waiting on their soulmate and just made things work with?
If you believe in soulmates, are we destined to meet our soulmate as long as we hold out? Or, could we wait and wait and never meet the soulmate, or never have it revealed that a certain someone is the soulmate?
Would you ever marry a friend (a la My Best Friend's Wedding pacts) just because you hadn't found your soulmate and had reached a certain age?
Is to do so wrong?
If one never finds his or her soulmate, and refuses to settle, is adoption okay without a mate to raise the child with? Is that selfish?
I'm just wondering...my life is love life is looking pretty hopeless right now and after med school...well, then I'll be like 30 and I would love to have kids....
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