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You can join a sorority and be friends with whomever you please-- women in your sorority, women in other sororities and non-Greeks! Being in one sorority and being at home there, and having friends in another sorority is what we call "Being Panhellenic." It is a very positive thing to seek out friends from many different places!

If you have a lot of friends in Sorority A and feel at home with them, ask them if the are holding COB. If they are, it would be a natural fit. If they are not, it doesn't impair your friendship with them.

If you are enjoying recruitment with Sorority B, who initially didn't impress you until you got to know them better, and they've expressed interest in you, enjoy the time and see where it goes.

Sorority B is a great opportunity to make new friends and to possibly become part of a sisterhood. Sorority A comprises all of your friends, who will be your friends no matter what. Sorority A has made you feel welcome as a friend, but they have not mentioned the prospect of sisterhood, correct?

In 3 years, will you be happy to be a member of a sorority where you can be yourself, and be friends with whomever you like? Or will you be happy to not be a member of a sorority and to still be friends with whomever you like?

This option is about YOU. You have to do what feels right for you and your future.