to the OP:
if you are interested in this sorority whose events you are going to and think that you would accept a bid if they offered it to you I think that maybe you should talk to your friends in your "honorary" sorority. Tell them how you feel and that you are interested in sisterhood and being a initiated member and that is something that is important to you. If you were my friend and talked to me about it I might be hurt, but I think that it would only be good to be honest and tell them how you feel and that you respect their sorority that you are considering joining this other sorority. I mean, how hurt can they be if that sorority did not offer you a bid?
Okay, i hope this make sence. I have had a headache all day.
good luck.
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