Maybe it's different down south? I was born and raised in TN and while we have our inconsiderate men, it is expected that a man treats any woman he dates like a lady. I was past 20, home for a break from college, and any guy who came to take me out had to come in and chat with my father, guys couldn't call after a certain hour, and if you ever honked your horn from my drive way, you wouldn't be seeing me that night. Sistarisin, it also depends on where you meet men, going to a club or something, I fully expect a man to do that "hey baby, what yo name is", because that is what gets attention in those types of places, he doesn't have to do much else because there is always a female who will respond to that. But if you are in church, a museum or something, guys normally know how to approach you....
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