[FuturePhD]

But is it just me, or are most of you saying that people can't change??? If you were a "player" back in the day, I shouldn't trust you now because you have those tendencies and may revert back to those ways? And while I've never personally had to struggle with homosexuality, there were a lot of things that I have been delivered from...and if you are honest with yourself, there are a lot of things that you regret doing or having a weakness for. If you can't trust a man to be faithful to you and only you, regardless of what his sexual preference was/is...then you don't need to be with him, point blank. Now, I have never (knowingly) been in this situation, so maybe my viewpoints would change, but I would hate to think that someone would judge me now, by the mistakes that I've made in the past. And it is one's personal perference one what they can and cannot deal with in a relationship, I can't stand a smoker, and I can't be with someone who isn't a Christian, so I understand everyone who says that they just couldn't overlook that, that's just being honest...