When I said "last ditch effort," I was quoting something another poster had said...I realized how harsh it sounded when I reread it a little later. I genuinely like the girls at the new house, which is part of my problem, because, if I had gotten to know them this well the first time I rushed and before I had a "set group" of friends at school, I would have definately wanted to join. And 33girl, thanks for your perspective on the issue; it's hard to see it from their point of view, so it's good to hear from someone who has been there. Thanks again everyone for all the advice and support (and some needed criticism
)--I'll keep you posted.