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Originally posted by ShalondaClark
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The problem is most of us are looking for a perfect man, ( he does not exist). I was looking for someone who would like the same things i like someone who had money, job, car, no kids, not living with moma, and the whole nine yards. But when i finally came to my sences i found that he does not exist. When we stop looking that is when a good man will come to us. I found my fiance on my door steps trying to get into my house to put the cable in. I was pregnant so i had to wait until i droped that load to get with this man. I waited and we have been together for 2 year and we are about to get married. Everything i didn't want in a man I had that is why i didn't want him. But it will all ball down to I have the man that i want but not exactly i had to make him that man that i wanted and i wasn't even looking for him.
sorry for the long stroy sorors but i just had to let you all know.
Sisterly'
wendy
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That was beautiful!
OK let us keep it simple...........If you are looking for the perfect man you first must become the perfect woman(and there is no such thing as a perfect woman just as there are no perfect men). Set standards that you yourself can reach ie if you want a man with a job be sure you can get a job yourself if you need to. ie if you want a man with a car be sure you can get a car without a man ie if you wanted to be treated well by a man treat yourself better than any man can treat you! YOu attract what you give off(not every time but a majority of it *groucho in the grabage can all up in your stuff*
I am not perfect.....but the Lord allows me to work to get there.....so it should be with a man......he should not be perfect but working withing himself and whatever god he believes in to get there!
I know this is long but Pretty Kitty says I never come by here
FINALLY THE SPHINXPOET HAS COME BACK TO GREEK CHAT!
