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As far as the "guy needing to complete x,y,z" before committing stuff. I used to have your view with that, figuring if a guy would care enough, he wouldn't need anything else. Then i realized, thats b.s. If a guy, or girl, wants to have certain experiences and he or she settles down before having those experiences, 9 times out of 10, the want for the experience may come back. I'm already seeing this with one of my brothers, he got marred, regrets that he didn't mess around more in college, so he's doing that now, behind his wife's back. Now, that's f*$*^d for sure, but I saw that coming a mile a way the day he got married. So, it isn't always b.s. when a guy says he needs to clear up his mind by having experiences. In regards to the post topic, I am in 100% agreement with the fact that women dangle sex for love while men dangle love for sex. I'll quote another one of my fraternity brothers when he said "Women can fake orgasms, but men can fake entire relationships." It seemed funny at the time, but is in reality kind of sad. Women do seem to need the affection part while men (some of em) can do without the love as long as they can wake up next to something warm and cuddly. This isn't true with all guys, but isn't a hard situation to encounter.
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